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Spice Things Up

Fun & Sexy Chemistry Lab for Couples

A short, hands-on workshop for couples wanting to become better lovers - togather

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Why attend?

Whether you’re a new couple or have been together for years, intimacy, sex and erotic compatibility requires conscious effort to build and maintain. This workshop will give you some juicy tools to keep the spark alive for the long run. You’ll begin to understand each other’s erotic blueprint, navigate your individual needs and desires, and learn to communicate them in a sexy, playful way.

This is a game chnging experience that will very liklely bring you closer together, emotionally and physically! 

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Learning outcomes

Discover your unique Core Erotic Themes (CETs) and how you can use these powerful turn ons to unlock your hottest sex together. CETs are the strongest psychological and emotional factors for your arousal – knowing will be a game changer for your sex life!

Gain practical skills for giving and receiving touch in an attuned and connected way. Learn specific touch techniques to enhance arousal and pleasure for both of you.

Learn to communicate desires and boundaries in a sexy way that enhances intimacy rather than kills the moment, both in and out of the bedroom.

Get better at feeling and enjoying your own arousal. Then learn how to do that while staying present and connected to your partner without being self-conscious, tense or worried about how you perform.

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Meet the facilitator

This workshop is created and led by Somatic Sexologist and Sex Educator, Ilil Lunkry. Ilil brings a practice-based approach to sex education that focuses on experiential learning. The skills taught by her go beyond just concepts; you will develop understanding through practice and experience in a safe, supportive and professional environment.

Ilil works with individuals, couples and groups from all walks of life, helping them navigate their own paths to greater sex, intimacy and relational fulfilment.

  • Certified Sexological Bodyworker (SSEAA registered)

  • Sex & Relationship Coach (Somatica® Certified) 

  • Featured Sexologists on the TV show ‘Virgin Island S-2’

  • Somatic Sexologists Aoteara Registered Practitioner

  • Certified Youth Sex Educator

  • Certificate in Working with Vaginismus (AASECT)

This in-person workshop has limited spaces. Private group bookings are available by request.

Duration: 3 hours

Price: $50 nzd p.p

BOOKING INFORMATION

Friday, 17 July 2026

10:30am - 13:30pm
Pōneke - Wellington NZ

Questions?

KIND WORDS

★★★★★

“So good – every couple should do this.”

We’ve been together for nearly 15 years, and it is safe to say things were feeling a bit stale in the bedroom…

This small group workshop reminded me what I loved about Tom and gave us a new sense of curiosity about each other. I felt like I was seeing him with new eyes!

We’ve continued working with Ilil privately and absolutely adore her. She’s professional and so passionate about her work. And she always makes us laugh - we’re so comfortable being our selves around her.

- Tom & Damien -

★★★★★

These tools completely changed our sex life.

We thought we were coming for a fun, saucy night activity together – but this workshop completely changed our sex life!

It is amazing how simple tweaks to your personal habits and communication style can change the game like this. We had so much fun learning about our core erotic themes, and how we can use them to boost each others arousal.

We 100% recommend this workshop for everyone!

- Lily & Adrien -

★★★★★

I feel safe to explore these intimate topics

If you want a coach that truly empowers you to make progress on your path of sexual empowerment and makes the tools and practices so accessible, fun and practical, definitely book in with Ilil.

Ilil is very engaging, a great listener, gives awesome reflections and affirmations. With Ilil I feel so safe to explore these intimate topics every time we talk.

So much gratitude!

- Jess -