
RESOURCES & EDUCATIONAL MATERIALS
Educational Blogs & Websites
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The Somatica Blog
The Somatica Blog features articles with tools and insights on sex, intimacy, and relationships. Grounded in the Somatica® Method, it’s a rich resource for anyone who wants to deepen intimacy and build fulfilling relationships.
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OMGYES
Based on the findings from the largest-ever research study into women’s pleasure, OMGYES is an interactive platform that offers tutorials, super-honest videos, animations and practical how-to’s.
Videos & Podcasts
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Betty Martin - Wheel of Consent
As a somatic sex educator and former chiropractor, Betty Martin’sYouTube videos are a fantastic resource for somatic consent and sexuality, rooted in her Wheel of Consent framework. She offers practical teachings, demos, interviews, and hands‑on exercises that empower viewers to deepen body awareness, consent communication, and erotic embodiment.
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Stephanie Rigg - On Attachment
Stephanie Rigg’s podcast On Attachment explores anxious and avoidant relationship dynamics through thoughtful talks, interviews, and practical tools. As a relationship coach and teacher, Steph shares strategies for building security, self-soothing, and deeper connection. Her YouTube channel offers additional insights for those wanting to dive deeper.
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Come As You Are Podcast
Created and hosted by the award winning author and educator, Dr. Emily Nagoski, the Come As You Are Podcast offers a fascinating guide to sexual wellbeing. Drawing on the latest research about desire, orgasms, and anatomy, Dr. Nagoski makes sex education fun and approachable, with plenty of actionable insights along the way.
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Juliet Allen - Authentic Sex
Juliet Allen’s Authentic Sex podcast features weekly episodes with candid discussions, expert guests, and practical tips on sex, pleasure, relationships, and intimacy. As one of the world’s leading sexologists, Juliet shares her insights and actionable advice to nurture embodied connection, self‑pleasure, and authentic sexual vitality.
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Orgasmic Yoga
The Orgasmic Yoga website is a huge online resource for educational videos. Using breathing techniques, movement and other somatic practices, these practical videos are designed to help individuals and couples learn new erotic skills so they can access and sustain sexual arousal. Almost like educational porn.
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Where Should We Begin? With Esther Perel
Where Should We Begin? With Esther Perel is a podcast that features real, one-off therapy sessions with world-famous psychotherapist Esther Perel. Listening to individuals and couples from all walks of life share their stories with Esther in such a raw, personal way is often profound and deeply moving.
Books
Establishing Resilient Relationships & Building Secure Attachment
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non Monogamy by Jessica Fern
Making Love Real: The Intelligent Couple's Guide to Lasting Intimacy and Passion by Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman
Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the Science of Adult Attachment can Help You Find – and Keep – Love by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Men, Women, and Worthiness: The Experience of Shame and the Power of Being Enough by Brené Brown
The State Of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity - a book for anyone who has ever loved by Esther Perel
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel
Intimacy, Sexuality & Sex Education
Come as You Are: the bestselling guide to the new science that will transform your sex life by Emily Nagoski
Coming Together: Embracing your Core Desires for Sexual Fulfillment and Long-Term Compatibility by Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman
The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin
Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure by Sheri Winston
The Penis Book: A Doctor's Complete Guide to the Penis - From Size to Function and Everything in Between by Aaron Spitz
Adult Stores & Sex Toys
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Silksecret
Silksecret is an Australian-based boutique offering luxury, body‑safe sex toys. With an empowering, inclusive approach, their collection is designed to help individuals cultivate a rewarding pleasure ritual on their own terms.
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Lovehoney NZ
Lovehoney is the leading global sexual wellness brand offering a huge selection of sex toys, lingerie, lubricants, and so much more. For New Zealand shoppers, Lovehoney NZ offers a reliable, discreet choice for pleasure products.
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Satisfyer
Satisfyer is known for its innovative sexual wellness devices. With over 200 award‑winning products, a user‑friendly app, and high quality designs, their sex toys are a great investment in your pleasure.